GET OUT OF THE COMFORT ZONE FOR A GREAT FUTURE

           

      When life is full of struggles , when life is full of sacrifice, when we have to get out of our comfort zone. Dare to move to the city of people in order to reach nobel ideals. We are far from parents, brother or sister and also far from closest person. All that I was doing when I moved from Bandung to Karawang. However I did it for my parents and my dreams. Indeed there are many obstacles that must be passed where I have to do everything myself, without a mother who usually prepares my equipment, without a father who usually takes me wherever and without a sister who usually comforted me when I was exhausted.

     I really wan to tell them how cruel the world is, how sad the journey to success is especially for woman like me, I know that I'm only a girl from a village who moved to the city, so it is only natural that I have not been able to adapt it to language or culture that I find rude and so far from my culture in my village full of ethics despite lack of education. I always remember my mother's massage "Take care of relationships because the rain stone in village is better than golden rain in the city". It means I have to take care of my association because the worst of life in the village is better than the sparkle of life in a city that is not neccesarily make me happy. Let my journey now bacome a beautiful story in my future.

        I want to eliminate the perception of people who always say " what do you get a college? After all, you will also become a housewife, you should learn to be a good housewife not by college!" In contrast, even though I'm in college I'm also trying to be a future wife and good mother for my children someday, won't a smart mother produce smart kids too? One of them I have prepared good names for my children late, even though this is small thing but this is also very important because the naming of childen is also what prayer is expected of the children, if I have children I will choose a name such as Baqir Abdul Mannan Nawawi for man which means a vast servant of god and gifted, because I want my child to be an Intelligent child and if I have a daughter I will give her the name Afanin Huriyah Huwaida Azzahra that means woman like angels of heaven who are gentle and intelligent.

        In addition, I take english department so if I was asked the western name of my children in the future  I will choose the name Mohammed Joseph, Richard and Ibrahimovic for men and the Angelica, Elzafi and Arzu for women and if I asked why I don't change my name as I like, I will answer that I don't want to change my name becaus it's given from my parents and it will be hopes and also has great meanings as my mother say that Rida is Ridho, it means that I will always patient to face anything that happens to me. Even though it is a simple thing but giving a name is very important because it will be hopes in the future. There are actually many more ways we can learn about it, because of the limited time I have, I think it is enough to write until here. I have massage for anyone who reads my writing, keep dreaming and chasing what you expect all this time, let people thing you are hallucinating because your goals aren't big enough if you don't get rude criticism from people around you, you just need to learn because you never too old to learn. 

Sincerely   

          

Rida Yulianti