The nature of men and women

   

     Allah has created His creatures in pairs. Like the sky pair with the earth, hot with cold, night with day, land with the sea, men with women and others. Each of these creations carries its own task. They cannot leave Allah's provisions. All activities must be in accordance with the nature that God has bestowed upon him. They don't have the advantage of others. Everything is the same in the sight of God. They only work together to form the order of the universe regularly and neatly.

     Therefore, whoever comes out of nature and the rules that have been set by Allah, then what will happen is a huge chaos and disaster. Because each was created by Allah according to his nature as the creation of human beings they instinctively created religion namely monotheism. So whoever comes out of this fitrah (monotheistic religion), then it is an irregularity and there will be chaos caused by it. Likewise to the image of God's creatures in general.

     From the article "Men are from mars and women are from venus" we can find out that between men and women were created to have their own distinctions and privileges, don't let us get out of our nature. For example, from a little girl, she has been taught education sex, which means that here is a woman who has been taught and accustomed to doing something or using anything that is in accordance with her nature as a woman. different from men who have to look more manly stronger, for example little boys prefer soccer. don't get between women and men upside down.

     The nature of men is to have greater physical strength than women, because he is required to be the head of the family who is obliged to fulfill his family's livelihood, provide shelter, clothing, and become a protector for a woman (his wife) and children. While women are created as humans who are physically weak compared to men. But God gave him the greater nature of tenderness and affection that men don't have. This is because the woman is prepared to become a figure of educator and mentor to the growth and development of the attitudes, behavior, mental and moral of her children.

     Between men and women, each has the nature of deficiencies and advantages that complement each other. So that by carrying out their respective roles, does not reduce what is their obligation and does not demand more what is their right, then there will be harmony and balance in family and community life. God has made women as partners for men, and vice versa. All of that is to bring about a feeling of love and compassion between them.

( Source : The article "men are from mars and women are from venus")

Rida Yulianti